Q: What are some of your passing tips or things you do to pass?
A: Absolutely nothing, I’ve never gone out in public. I’m that far in the closet with this that I’m paranoid my friends would ask to many questions if I had a clean shave as I’ve had a stubble beard for like the last 5 years, (which, in my opinion I actually suit, well at least when I’m presenting as a man).
Side note, I actually quite like beards, which is why I was really confused by Conchita Wurst, because on one hand I was like she’s really pretty, you know nice face, nice body and in my opinion could totally pass if she wanted to. On the other hand, I was like her beard is fuckin’ amazing, that’s the kind of beard I want.
It’s a weird time for me, I think I need to reconcile male me with female me, because at the moment I still see them as two separate people. When what I think I need to do is see them as two different aspects that make the whole that is I.
Any-who what was the question? Oh yeah passing. Yeah I don’t do a thing.
On another side note, I’ve also started trying to tuck in private and shave my man parts, which let’s be honest it sucks… well it sucks balls. Maybe I just need more practice, but it keeps coming back up. I should maybe try taping, but I’m not that keen on the idea, it seems like a lot of hassle. I’m seriously beginning to consider that I might be far too lazy to be a girl. I always knew it was a lot of work to be a biological girl, but it’s seem even more work to be a trans one; and I’m not even doing that much. Woe is me.